Questions & Answers
Everything you need to know
Dress Code: Semi-Formal Attire
Please refrain from wearing white. The bridal party will be wearing light purple.
We want you to enjoy your night in whatever makes you most comfortable. We ask that you come dressed for the occasion, but feel free to have fun finding something that feels like you! This could be a more formal dress and suit, or slacks and a midi dress! We encourage you to wear fun colors, patterns, or designs — if that is your style. Although our wedding is in the fall, we love some spring/summer colors!
Though most of our evening will take place indoors and on a heated patio, please keep in mind that the ceremony is scheduled to be outdoors on the waterfront lawn.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the closest airport?
The closest major airport is Atlantic City International (ACY) located about 50 minutes from our accommodations.
When should we travel in?
When you travel is dependent on your situation! Cape May is a beautiful area, with wonderful surrounding towns and attractions. We encourage you to look into making the most of your travels and spending the weekend down the Jersey Shore! See our Things to Do tab for more recommendations!
Is there a hotel block?
Yes! Please see our Accommodations tab for more information!
What should I wear?
The dress code is semi-formal! The bridal party will be wearing light purple/lavender/lilac, and the bride will be in white — so we ask that you choose from other colors when picking attire! Please note that the ceremony is scheduled to take place on the lawn, so coordinate your shoes accordingly! For more information, see the Dress Code section above!
Is there an open bar?
Yes! Come ready to spend the night partying with us!
Can I bring a plus one?
If you have received a plus one, they will be noted on your invitation! If your invite says “Your Name and Guest” we have accounted for a plus one of your choosing. Otherwise, those listed on your invite are those who are invited!
Are my kids invited?
If your children are included in our guest count, they will be noted on your invitation! If your invite says “The _____ Family” we have accounted for your whole crew. Otherwise, those listed on your invite are those who are invited!
How do I RSVP?
Once you receive your official invitation, please return to the RSVP tab on this site to respond for yourself and the guests included in your party. The RSVP deadline will be included in the invitation!
How do I get to and from the venue?
Transportation to and from the venue will be provided from any of the reserved hotel locations. If you will be driving to the venue, parking is available across the street in a grass lot. We recommend utilizing the provided transportation, car services, or carpooling for the best overall experience.
If you are driving to the venue, please use this address: 1819 Delaware Ave, Cape May, NJ 08204
What time should I arrive for the ceremony?
The ceremony begins promptly at 4:30PM. We ask that you arrive no earlier than 4:00PM and no later than 4:20PM so that you can be seated in time!
Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?
Both! Our ceremony is planned to take place outside on the waterfront lawn. Then, cocktail hour will move inside, and the reception will take place in a tented patio on the bay!
Do you have a registry?
Yes! Please see our Registry tab for more information!
Are the ceremony and reception at different locations?
No! Once you arrive at our venue, you are there for the night! Everything happens on site.
Can I take pictures with my phone?
We ask that you refrain from taking pictures during our ceremony! We spent a lot of time researching our photographer and videographer, and are confident we booked great ones! We want to see you be present in our pictures when we look back on them. Once cocktail hour starts, feel free to take pictures of anything you'd like!